Always know your value! Seems like a simple enough statement, right? You would think we know our selves well enough to know our own value in all aspects of our lives: careers/jobs, relationships romantically or friendship, in everyday activities, etc., We all have different ideals of our self-worth, so let’s break it down first with defining self-esteem: reflects an individual’s overall subjective emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is the decision made by an individual as an attitude towards one self. There it is, where we lose our sense of value, “our subjective emotional evaluation of our own worth”.
How does this happen? It’s called life! Life happens my friends with good scenarios, bad scenarios or good choices and bad choices. These scenarios all play in the emotional evaluation of our self-worth. As a self-development junkie and someone who wants to help others be their best selves, I am a strong believer that one can either rise above or sit and dwell from a bad situation. I am here to tell you all, “rise above a bad situation and dwell in a good situation”. Know your worth my friends. If you are doing your best and make a mistake, that’s ok, YOU DID YOUR BEST learn and move on! Know your worth and do not stay at a job/career where you do your best, excel, and never get any positive feedback or kudos for being the amazing person you are. Do not stay in a relationship romantically or friendship wise where you give your time and feelings to with getting nothing back in return. Do not give to activities that you do not feel fill your soul after you have done them.
We all have moments or situations where our confidence is lacking for one reason or another. Those moments are there to help us grow and remember our worth. Never let anyone or any situation in any of the above circumstances let you feel less then. You are all amazing beings and we are all a work in progress in our lives, always know your worth and be your best self.
Life is a Journey my Friends make it what you want it to be!